Best way to overcome Rejection in life

Rejection

There are some situations in your life when you will be rejected.

There will be a time when you just want to hear a yes but you will always hear a no!

There will be a time when you will be expecting something different from your life but something else will happen.

You will have to face rejections, non- acceptance, abandonment and negligence.




What will you do when you face it?
How are you going to accept the fact that you are rejected?

How will you feel getting knocked out?

Well, these are some questions you will ask yourself but it’s only you who can help yourself.

Generally what people do is a fight. They fight for themselves, for their position, and for their reputation.

Let’s take a small situation everyone has faced in their childhood.

A kid asks his mom for going out with his friends. His mom refuses and says that you went out yesterday only so you cannot go today.

Now he is wondering why he is rejected for such a small thing?

He will fight for his desires.

He is going to ask his mom once again, he will try to persuade her. He will give reasons, he will make promises and will agree on some deal.

It’s quite common because we are never ready to accept rejections. We are shattered when rejected. But this should not happen because there is not only one thing in life to do. If you are rejected for something don’t feel sad about it because life does not end in that situation.

There is a very simple quote but it’s very deep-

“Learn to respond not to react”

This quote with a mere 6 words speaks a lot. It solves many of our life problems. Sometimes when we are rejected by something, we react to the situation. We react so badly that it gives pain to either us or to the other person.

That reaction always ends up in a bad way and sometimes it can impact the relationship as well.

There is always the other way around if your reaction made the situation worse.

Next time try something new, maybe you will be accepted.

So always take time, try to understand the situation from both ends and deal with it from a calm mind.

Treat yourself with compassion, do not be too hard on yourself because your one bad behavior can be a life-changing situation.

If you want to grow you must learn from your rejections.

You should analyze your weak areas that need improvement or you can simply understand that being turned down isn't awful as you imagined because rejection can be a good teacher. Use rejection as an opportunity to move forward with more wisdom.

If you learn from all the situations where you are rejected and still you are willing to grow in life you will be the best version of yourself in no time.

Always learn new things. Don’t restrict yourself to your first rejection. Don’t let rejection define who you are. One person's opinion or one single incident should never define who you are. Don't let your self-worth depends on someone else’s opinion.
So always face your rejection with all you have and accept it. And remember rejection gives you more power to push yourself forward.